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A free masterclass with Dr Kalanit Ben-Ari — relationship expert with 25 years of clinical experience and 22 years of marriage. Watch on your schedule, on any device.
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Featuring the world's most respected voices in couples work
Over the next hour, Dr Kalanit Ben-Ari walks you through the five patterns she's seen quietly damage almost every couple she's worked with — and the specific shift that breaks each one. No theory. No clichés. Just the patterns most couples don't realise they're caught in.
Why trying to change your partner makes them dig in harder — and the one mindset shift that ends the loop.
The quiet pattern that hands your power to your partner without you realising. Plus the one question that gets it back.
"You can be right, or you can be in a relationship." How to recognise when pride is steering, and how to switch lenses fast.
Why expecting your partner to be your lover, best friend, therapist and cheerleader sets you both up to fail — and what to do instead.
Your brain is a story factory. Learn to catch the story before it becomes the fight — with one of the most powerful conversation tools Kalanit teaches.
"It's not your fault that relationships are challenging. No one gave us a manual, and most of us didn't grow up with a perfect model of a healthy partnership. But today, that changes."
Dr Kalanit Ben-Ari
Kalanit is a relationship expert, international speaker, author, and trainer of couples therapists — with more than 25 years of clinical experience helping couples break free from the patterns that quietly erode connection.
She's the founder of Awakening Love, the Relationship Expert for MAFS Israel, and curator of the Love in Action Summit — bringing together the world's most respected voices in couples work.
Kalanit teaching at a couples workshop — the same frameworks she's been using with thousands of couples for 25 years.
Watch instantly, on any device. Pause, rewind, watch with your partner if you want to.
A 20-page workbook to bring the insights into your week — with reflection prompts and action steps.
Kalanit is the curator of Love in Action — bringing together the founders of Imago Therapy, the world-leading Gottman Institute, and a dozen of the most respected voices in couples work for an in-depth, on-demand library.
Sign up below to start with Kalanit's free masterclass — you'll discover the full Love in Action library on the next page.
One hour with one of the world's most respected voices in couples work. No cost, no catch, no spam.
From couples and individuals who've taken the masterclass.
"[Placeholder — short, specific quote from a past masterclass attendee. Ideally mentions a tangible shift: 'we stopped having the same fight three times a week', 'I finally understood why he goes quiet']."
"[Placeholder — quote that handles a common objection: 'I was sceptical because we'd tried therapy before, but…' or 'I watched it alone because my partner wasn't ready, and it still changed how we…']."
"[Placeholder — emotional outcome quote: 'I cried at Mistake #3. I'd been doing it for ten years and didn't see it.' or 'My husband watched it with me and we talked properly for the first time in months']."
About an hour. Watch it in one sitting, or break it into chunks — it's yours to keep.
Yes. Drop your email in the form and you'll get instant access to both the masterclass video and the companion ebook. No credit card needed.
No. It's a teaching masterclass drawn from Dr Ben-Ari's 25 years of clinical work — designed to give you frameworks and language you can apply yourself, with or without your partner watching alongside you.
That's actually how most people start. The shifts Kalanit teaches don't require both partners to be on board — they begin with one person changing how they show up.
You'll be redirected to a page with the masterclass video, your ebook, and an invitation to explore the full Love in Action library. No phone calls, no high-pressure offers — just the masterclass.
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Watch the free masterclass and discover the five patterns that quietly drain most relationships — and exactly what to do about each one.